Friday, September 28, 2018

You Owe You



Get you some folks that know who they are, what they want, what they need, and who know how to treat you. Uncommitted souls will travel, that untethered soul that seems so exciting and free is that way for the same reason they won't be there for you. Half loves don't possess enough to sustain. One foot in one foot out doesn't make for a sturdy stance. All or nothing isn't a space they operate in and their inconsistency will drive you crazy. As for the integrity deprived, they will always rationalize their faults. It's only on them when they're winning, none of the back splash of fault hits their radar.

This moment is dedicated to those who know they deserve more...so have more.

You owe you more.


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Friday, September 7, 2018

DIY...Nah



If you need help, seek help. Pride may motivate us to great heights, it can help us push through & persevere but it can also be crippling. That need to "do it myself" can hurt our health, relationships and finances. There's no shame in reaching out and getting a personal trainer, tutor, marriage counselor, therapist or even talking to mom or dad.

This moment is dedicated to everyone out there who feels like they need to put the whole world on their back.

As great as it is to say that you "did it all by yourself" you are not diminished one bit by reaching out and tapping in with others, it doesn't make you any less valuable...

And if your ego just really needs the pat on the back...there's great pride in assembling a great team.

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Sunday, September 2, 2018

Talk That Talk


Relationships are hard. Communication is the foundation but a lot of times the issue is articulation. So many of us put all of this energy into wanting to be heard yet we're not sure on what it is we're trying to say. We all have these emotions and insights that are crystal clear to us, but the image can be a little streaky when explained to someone else. Phrases like, "you know what I mean" or "if you care you'd..." get used like duct tape to hold together an incoherent statement or confusing situation. No they don't know, and those sporadic verbal bread crumbs may not be enough to get them to.

This moment is simply about taking that breath...about being clear on what exactly it is we're trying to say before we through that verbal combination and demand someone to "see what we mean". It's easy to get caught up in a whirlwind of emotions and a tornado of our own thoughts. We can lose our perspective, our train of thought & some cases our minds...


...And I can't expect you to know where I'm coming from if I can't clearly tell you where I've been.


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